Bali, Indonesia

All the couple pics were compliments of the Ubud hotel Ok….Why not?!

This April we celebrated our 10 year wedding anniversary and treated ourselves to exploring Bali, just a 5 hour flight south of Taiwan. We split our time between two dramatically different areas. The first being Ubud in the central part and the second in Amed, on the east coast. Ubud is busy. There are lots of temples, bustling markets, zippy scooters, small boutique hotels, people from all over the world, cafes, nightlife activities, dance performances at temples and young backpackers drifting around. Amed is the flip side of that. It’s quiet, remote and requires more effort to access. We suspect Bali has become increasingly busy since Elizabeth Gilbert released Eat, Pray, Love in 2006!  


Mountain biking through Ubud’s countryside with Green Bike Cycling Tour

Sacred Monkey Forest Sanctuary in Ubud – a quiet respite from the busy, just don’t carry any food or water bottles unless you want a monkey to climb on you and bite (not first hand experience, but we witnessed it).

Balinese dance + music at the Saraswati Temple in downtown Ubud

If you think Blue Man Group has expressive eyes, you haven’t seen Balinese dance! And the hands gestures! Wow. We learned that children and taught to dance with their hands before they can walk.

Learning about traditional Balinese weaving and ikat, a dyeing technique

We bought the blue and white textile from this artist – made in her home. It’s technically unfinished (uncut), but we liked that. It uses the ikat technique of dyeing, see next photo.
Ikat means “to bind” in the Indonesian. This yarn is already tightly bound where dye is not desired. It’s a laborious process.
Then the bindings are removed and the dyed yarns are woven into a cloth.

Snorkeling & sailing a Balinese jukung off Amed

Derek the Dutch owner of the small villa were we stayed gave us a tutorial before setting sail.

No photos of snorkeling, but the currents were very gentle and we could go out any time. We saw clean water, living coral and swimming turtles!

Cloud gazing, Bintang sip ‘n and sketching

My old timey photos! Really enjoy contour style sketching with few glances given to the paper. I find it relaxing, like Pickles finds a Bintang relaxing.

Palace & Temples

The Royal Palace – such a beautiful place + community swimming pool (behind fountain).

Women who are menstruating are FORBIDDEN to enter temples. Strangely, cockfighting is permitted in temples (roosters with razor blades strapped to their ankles). The cocks will fight to death. It’s often fast and very bloody. Let’s end menstruation shaming! Sure, periods sucks most of the time, but it’s healthy, natural and how we all got here.

Period shaming, third blurb from bottom

Poleng Cloth + Balance

Indonesia has the world’s largest Muslim population, but on the island of Bali it’s primarily Hindu. We learned from our driver that in Hinduism you pray to three things, every day: god, nature (sky/earth) and the living (people/animals). Something you’ll see everywhere is black and white checkered cloth. Cloth/textiles is central to all Balinese spiritual activities, particularly this one called the Poleng cloth. The black and white represent the concept of balance, comparable to yin and yang. The yellow symbolizes harmony. The Hindu people believe in dualities, like good and evil so they embrace differences because these create harmony and balance. So true!

We fully support bra-free in Bali and you will too once you feel the heat.
These are “Canang sari” one of the daily offerings made by Balinese Hindus to give thanks to Sang Hyang Widhi Wasa. Sari (essence) and Canang (a small palm-leaf basket as the tray). They are everywhere!


We didn’t take any food photos because the world has enough, but we’ll share our favs which are all staples to the Balinese: Mie Goreng (fried noodles w/ veg, chicken, shrimp or pork), Nasi Goreng (the same but with fried rice and egg on top), Sate (mashed meat on sticks, different than satay), Nasi Campur (rice, veggies meat) and Dadar Gulung dessert (a green pancake roll with coconut and brown palm sugar).

Things we learned:

  1. The heat is intense. We sweated profusely.
  2. Elephants are not native to Bali – we were surprised that they were imported for tourism purposes only.
  3. Coffee has a dark side called Kopi Luwak (civet coffee). This is a coffee that includes partially digested coffee cherries, eaten and defecated by the Asian Palm Civet (also not native to Bali, but imported for this product). Civet “farms” are operated all across Southeast Asia, confining tens of thousands of civets to live in battery cages and be force-fed. We saw several civets in cages (for tourists to gawk at) – all pacing and distressed (they’re nocturnal animals). A lot of $$$ is made from these animals and many die in the process. Nat Geo has more on the world’s most expensive coffee.
  4. Bali will officially ban single-use plastic bags, straws, and styrofoam effective July, 2019. Yea! It was mostly implemented during our visit too.

A look back
April 11, 2009, Stern Grove Park, San Francisco
10 years later…

Love, Pickles & Passionfruit


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4 thoughts on “Bali, Indonesia

  1. Ah, it looks like marriage agrees with you both!! You are aging well-hee hee. Thanks for sharing the pics. xoxo Mom

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